For better or for worse, you will find yourself undeniably drawn to someone who resembles your opposite-gender parent.
If you have a good relationship with your parent, it will be easy to find someone who makes you happy. And in turn, you make that person happy.
If you aren’t so lucky, you are set up for pain. The people you love will hurt you. Even if they love you. Especially if they love you. Just like your parent did.
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As much as you would like to make it work with your partner, both you and your partner need to realize that how you interact hurts the other person and be willing to change.
Because if both of you act on instinct, there will be moments of happiness, followed by eons of pain. Much of this pain is unintended and could have been avoided if both people are self-aware.
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